Wednesday, February 11, 2015

Sam's Birth Story

Samuel Dow was born on January, 28 2015, weighing 7lbs 5oz and 20 3/4 inches long. Here's the story of how he got here:

On Tuesday (Jan 20) I had an appointment with my midwife in Gallup, and everything looked good for our travel down to Arizona a few days later. I was barely 1cm.

We headed down to Scottsdale on Thurdsay (Jan 22) to be there for my Friday morning appointment with our doctor, Dr. Newman (who is an amazing doctor, I recommend him to anyone in the area!) I had stronger contractions than I'd been having, and we were surprised to find out I was dilated to a 3 and 85% effaced! Since I was 39 weeks, Dr. Newman said if the baby didn't come over the weekend, they'd induce me on Monday. I really wanted Sam to come naturally and was hoping we wouldn't make it to Monday so I didn't have to be induced. We also needed him to come soon since Kasey took time off work to go to Arizona. So Monday looked like the day we'd have our baby! 

My contractions continued to be strong Friday afternoon, especially after running last minute errands to prepare for Baby Sam's arrival! My parents weren't planning on getting to town until Sunday night, but they changed their plans to get there Saturday night, just in case. They basically put me on bed rest on Saturday because they wanted to be there when the baby came. Saturday came and went! So did Sunday! Dr. Newman said the inductions start at 12am (Sunday night/Monday morning) and they do the medical inductions first, then the elective ones. I hardly slept that night because I was afraid I'd miss my call to head to the hospital. Finally around 2pm, and no call from the hospital, I called to ask what the schedule looked like. I was literally just sitting at the house waiting. (Well, we did take a long walk around the neighborhood.) They said they hadn't called any of the elective inductions in yet, and I was #3 on the list. So, that meant it didn't look good for us to have a baby on Monday unless he decided to come on his own. At this point, I was mentally ready to have this baby. The contractions came and went, but nothing consistent. Dr. Newman's office called me and asked if I'd like to come in to see if he could help get my process started naturally. Kasey and I jumped in the car and took off for the office. I was SO ready. Beyond ready.

Monday afternoon I was dilated to a definite 4cm. Dr. Newman stripped my membranes and said he'd hopefully see me later that night or the next day! HALLELUJAH! We headed to grab a bite to eat, and run a few more errands. Any excuse to walk and get moving. I'd still been having contractions, but nothing consistent. I went to bed Monday night hoping I'd be woken up in the night with intense contractions and we'd have to head to the hospital. After another restless night, Tuesday morning came and I wasn't in labor and I hadn't gotten a call from the hospital. I called again to see what their schedule looked like because I hated just waiting around. They were still behind, so Kasey and I left to Phoenix to pick up some things for work. Same thing happened, I was having stronger contractions but nothing consistent. SERIOUSLY?! DO YOU FEEL MY FRUSTRATION YET?!!!

Tuesday night I finally accepted the fact that I was going to be pregnant forever. My contractions continued to be strong that night, but I was used to this by now, so I wasn't getting my hopes up. Kasey and I watched TV until about 1am, and then he went to bed. I stayed on the couch and kept track of my contractions, hoping that this might be the night, just like every other night! I tried to sleep but woke up about 3am with contractions happening about every 20 minutes or so. They would wake me up, and started to last anywhere from 45 seconds to a minute. I started keeping track of my contractions whenever they'd wake me up. Finally around 6am I got up and showered, just in case this was it! My contractions became stronger and I would have to stop and breathe through the contraction, then keep on doing whatever I was doing. I woke up Kasey around 7am and told him to make a mental list of whatever he needed to take to the hospital (our bags were packed, but just in case there was anything else) and to start getting ready. He halfway believed me and wasn't too concerned about getting up right away. My contractions started coming closer together and I just kept hoping THIS was finally it. (Being induced with Emma, I wasn't sure what it felt like to go into labor naturally. My water didn't break, and I wasn't experiencing anything like the movies.) Finally my contractions were about 10 minutes apart and I wasn't sure how much longer we should wait before going to the hospital since they say baby #2 comes fast. During a contraction, I would have to bend over and breathe through it. They were lasting about a minute each but it felt like forever! We hurried and got Emma ready to go and left her with my parents while we headed to the hospital.

On our way to the hospital I had a couple contractions-at this point they were so intense that I was close to tears and every little bump in the road felt like an off-roading experience. We got to the hospital and checked in. As we were waiting to get checked, I didn't have any more contractions. WHAT?! Please don't tell me that I went through all of that and the second they get me back my contractions stop. They came in and said they would check me, but if I hadn't made any progress from a 4, they'd have to send me home because they were swamped. They seriously couldn't send me home! I'd been up all morning with contractions!! Surely I was at a 5. PLEASE LET ME BE AT A 5!!! They checked me and I was at a 7, almost 8! The nurse told me, "You're not going anywhere! You're having a baby today!" I cannot tell you how relieved I felt! My mom got to the hospital soon after and they got me set up in a room. Now it was just a waiting game until we got to a 10! My contractions weren't consistent and slowed down once we got to our new room. They asked if I wanted the epidural because they needed to get the anesthesiologist in there sooner than later. After my experience of having Emma, I didn't know what to expect, so I decided to get it. At this point I was dilated 8cm. SO CLOSE! My nurse came in shortly after and said my contractions were so inconsistent and so they started me on pitocin. This is when I was extra thankful for the epidural since that really strengthens the contractions! My contractions started coming back to back and next thing I knew I was dilated to a 10! 

Dr, Newman came in and said it was time to push. The day had flown by and I couldn't believe we'd be meeting our little guy soon! Little did I know it'd be SO soon! 3 pushes later! Samuel Dow arrived at 2:45pm. What an incredibly special moment that was. I am so glad my mom was there to experience such a sweet moment with Kasey and I. My first thought when I saw him was, "LOOK AT ALL THAT HAIR!!" Where did the dark hair come from? Emma was bald when she was born! We were not expecting all that hair, but he was more handsome than we ever could imagine. 

My dad and Emma headed over to the hospital, and Emma was immediately in love with her little brother! "Baby Sam" is her new favorite person. She is always worried about how he's doing, and trying to kiss him. Emma is the best big sister. It has been an easy transition bringing him home. 

We stayed in the hospital 2 nights. Kasey stayed with me both nights and Emma stayed with my parents. They were so awesome to take care of Emma while we were in the hospital. We had great nurses the entire time we were there. My parents brought us food, and we finally had our sweet baby here. 

Sam is such a good baby! These last 2 weeks have flown by. We are so blessed to have two healthy kids. My heart is so happy.















Thursday, December 25, 2014

2014

So I have totally slacked this year, especially this holiday season, and didn't get our Christmas cards done. Christmas seriously snuck up on me! Here's a little update on the Connell gang as we head into 2015!

Emma has grown so much this year! She turned 1 in January and impresses me every day with how much she comprehends! She speaks in full sentences and says the most hilarious things daily. Some of her favorites are:

"Mom, what are you doing?"

"Cowabunga, duuuuuude!!!"

"What the heck?!"

Whenever you give her something she says, "Fo' meeee?!"

She is very good at saying please and thank you. She also loves to say prayers before bed and before our meals. They are sweet and simple.

"Heavenly Father,
Thank you for this food.
Thank you for my family.
Thank you for my house.
I love you.
In the name of Jesus Christ, AAAAAAAAMENNNNNNNNNN!!!"

She recently has started to include everyone and everything that she's thankful for in her prayers. I love it! Sometimes her prayers are long, but I am grateful she's learning how to recognize the blessings in her life and things she is thankful for.

Emma is the sweetest girl who is excited to be a big sister. She hugs and kisses my belly often and says, "I love you, Sam!!!" She loves giving hugs and kisses, and loves everyone. She loves Olaf, and loves to sing and dance.

The holidays have been so fun this year. She loves Santa and the presents, but most of all she loves Baby Jesus. She tells him every day how much she loves him. She holds and rocks him, and likes to make sure he's ok. 

She loves going to church. She loves Jesus and our Heavenly Father. She brings such a sweet spirit into our home. I don't know how we got so lucky to have this perfect little girl in our family.

She also is a sassy little thing, who likes everyone to be on her schedule. She's knows what she wants and when she wants it!! 

She is currently singing "LET IT GOOOOOOOO!!!!" on our snowman rug while dancing and spinning around in circles. She loves to perform. I love this girl so stinkin much!!!

Kasey has been busy with work, and building furniture for our home, and others. He is so talented! I wish he had more time (and we had more money!!) but we are getting there! He is in the Young Men's presidency and loves working with those boys. They have so much fun together and I'm pretty sure he's having more fun than the young men!

He is the best daddy! Emma and Kasey have so much fun together, and I love it! I have been busy working 3 or 4 nights a week at the hotel, so Kasey takes care of dinner, bath, and bedtime with Emma. These two have a special bond! I am excited to watch their relationship grow and watch him grow as a dad as we bring our sweet baby boy into the world.

I have been busy with work and also serve in the Primary Presidency. I love those sweet kiddos, and I work with the best ladies. It really has been such a great calling. Emma keeps me the most busy!! I absolutely love spending my days chasing her around and watching her learn. Baby Sam will be here at the end of January (hopefully!) and we could not be more thrilled to be having a sweet boy join our family.

I am grateful for Christmas, and the gift of our Savior. I love Christmas and I love our Savior. I am grateful for the peace and joy He brings into my life.

"For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given: and the government shall be upon his shoulder: and his name shall be called Wonderful, Counsellor, The mighty God, The everlasting Father, The Prince of Peace." Isaiah 9:6


We are looking forward to 2015 and all of the exciting events ahead of us, especially welcoming Baby Sam into the world! 

We wish you all a Merry Christmas and a wonderful 2015! 

Love,
Kasey, Anna, Emma, and Baby Sam 












Sunday, September 7, 2014

Summer 2014

This summer has seriously just flown by! We have been so stinkin busy! I have started working more, and I feel like Kasey has, too! If that's even possible! He works during the day and I've been working 3 or 4 nights a week, so we miss seeing each other a few days a week. It's nice to have Sundays off and enjoy the day together as a family.

We found out we're having another baby due Feb 6, 2015! Although, I think he will be here sooner! It's a BOY and we are thrilled!!!!!!! This pregnancy has been different than when I was pregnant with Emma, so I was thinking it was a boy. I've been SUPER sick. It has been a hard few months chasing Emma and trying to survive. I swear some days I thought I might die. I was exhausted, and nauseous, and hot. Not the best combo. But I survived, and I just started feeling better last week! (Hence why I am blogging, and catching up on deep cleaning/organizing my house.)



We went to Lake Powell for a few days in June with my family! It was great to be together, and have the little cousins playing together! Life is so good!!!

We headed to Utah for the 4th of July! We love seeing Kasey's family! They do a huge BBQ every year and everyone swims, eats, and just enjoys time together! It's like Christmas in July! So perfect! We love the 4th of July tradition!

Crystal got married the following week in Colorado! It was seriously such a beautifully, perfect day! I am just thrilled for Crystal and Tito, and all the adventures ahead of them!

Kasey has been busy working on building me a desk for my new office at home. He's so handy, I love it! I am planning on working from home more, and need a lot of space! He comes home from work and plays with Emma and does bath time, then once she goes to bed he heads to the shop to work on different projects! Love this man of mine!!!

Life is so good, and we are so happy!

Lately I have been feeling overwhelmed with joy. Like, to the point of tears. (Thanks, hormones.) My heart is just so full. I love being a mom, and I love being married to Kasey. I love this life we have created together--it has been such a fun journey, and I am so looking forward to our future! We are excited to welcome a baby boy into our family, and watch Emma be a big sister! She is seriously hilarious.

She is a talking machine. What 19-month old says things like pterodactyl and guacamole? She hears something once and remembers it! She understands things and can distinguish opposites. She amazes me!! This week we've heard a lot of: GO BRONCOS, surgery, yeeee-haw, lasso, I love you's, etc. I could go on forever! I love being this little girl's mom! She loves to read and explore and learn. She keeps me on my toes, and I am so grateful for her sharp little mind! She's healthy and strong. We are so blessed to be her parents! She has us laughing daily. She has a fun sense of humor and is so outgoing. She loves everyone and everything. She says hi and waves to the unfriendliest looking people, and makes them smile! I love her sweet and innocent heart. I am learning a lot from her! She also loves accessories like belts, necklaces, and shoes. She's currently obsessed with motorcycles, airplanes, trains, hot wheels, and boats. She is perfect.










How far along? 18 weeks
Total weight gain/loss? 3 pounds gained. I've been SO sick.
Maternity clothes? Yes. Mainly because they're just so comfy! I can still wear my normal clothes, too.
Stretch marks? No new ones.
Sleep? Like a freakin baby. I'm exhausted every night. I'm starting to put a pillow under my belly though. We're getting to that point where it's going to get uncomfortable!
Best moment this week? Emma kissing my stomach and saying, "Hi Baby!" I also love feeling him wiggle around! It's like he's saying "Hi, Mom! I'm still here!" :)

Miss Anything? Sushi.Movement? Yes! Food cravings? Sushi. Steak. Cotton Candy. Anything making you queasy or sick? Different things on different days. I've been super sensitive this pregnancy.Have you started to show yet? Oh yes! This little guy popped out early! And is sitting low!
Gender? Boy!Labor Signs? No! Hopefully not for a loooooong time!Belly Button in or out? InWedding rings on or off? OnHappy or Moody most of the time? Happy most of the time. I usually cry for no reason, then I'm fine. (How is that different from when I'm not pregnant, Caitlin??)Looking forward to? My next appointment and hearing his heartbeat! We have an ultrasound in 3 weeks! I can't wait to see our little fella!



Friday, May 16, 2014

Benefits of Grapefruit Essential Oil

I put a few drops (1 drop per 4oz of water) of doTERRA Grapefruit oil in my water for a delicious flavor that includes a number of health benefits. Some of the common uses for grapefruit oil are: anorexia, appetite suppressant, cellulite, or a hangover. Grapefruit oil may also help with cancer, depression, other eating disorders, fatigue, jet lag, liver disorders, migraine headaches, premenstrual tension, stress, and  sympathetic nervous system stimulation. It may also have a cleansing effect on the kidneys, the lymphatic system, and the vascular system.

I am seriously in LOVE with doTERRA essential oils. Every oil, or oil blend, has a number of uses! They're a natural, incredible way to keep your body healthy.

If you'd like more information on any oils, feel free to contact me at amconnell12@gmail.com!
**If you're interested in purchasing oils, I get them at the wholesale price, and would love you get them for you.**

Read more about the benefits of grapefruit oil here: http://www.doterra-aromatics.com/products/singles/grapefruit.html

Thursday, May 1, 2014

My life has been nothing short of ridiculously crazy lately. I officially started my 1/2 marathon training on Monday, as well as the bikini series with my favorite girls from Tone It Up! So far I have run 7 miles in 3 days. I'm not the biggest fan of running (I go through phases) but I am learning to love it again! I love how I feel, and how I have more energy. So 2 or 3 miles a day might not seem like much to you, but it's an accomplishment for me! And I'm signed up to run 13.1...what the heck am I thinking?!

Last week, all 3 of us were sick. Having a sick 14-month old and husband make being sick even more miserable. I seriously couldn't function. About 2 months ago I started working at a hotel 3 or 4 nights a week. Kasey works from about 8-5 and I work 5-11. This schedule is not ideal. I love spending my days with Emma, and my sweet cousin watches her for about an hour as we commute to/from work. I literally don't see my husband about half of the week. That's the reason I married him, so I could spend MORE time with him!!! I guess I do get to sleep next to him, which is nice. Lately, he has complained that I am too cuddly in the night. I've almost pushed him off the bed a few times. He's a trooper. I love him.

Emma walks and talks like a big kid. I swear I just had her. How is she so big already?! I love watching her grow and learn new things. Being a parent is fun! I think that's the best word I can use to describe my experience so far being a mom. Some days are hard, and some nights are sleepless, but it is all fun and creates memories. Emma currently LOVES to read. I love that she loves to read! She loves Mickey Mouse Clubhouse and Sofia the First. She's the sweetest little girl, who loves to wear necklaces and give kisses. My life seriously cannot get any better. I feel blessed to have the sweetest husband and daughter.

Okay, it's 1:40am. This is what happens when I run at 11:30pm. Goodnight, blogger world. Thanks for reading.

Friday, April 25, 2014

TONE IT UP

If you haven't signed up for the #BikiniSeries, you still have time! 2 more days until it starts!! Sign up and do it with me!! I love these girls, and your body will love/hate you after these workouts! :) 

doTERRA Essential Oils

I absolutely love these oils and use them for tons different things. Headaches, to fight sicknesses, cuts/scrapes, etc. You name it, and you can use an oil to help fix the problem!! I saw this article the other day and LOVED IT! I believe these oils were put on the earth for us to use for our health, not just to add to perfumes and such. Check out the article! And if you're interested in purchasing oils, becoming a distributor, or just want to learn more, email me and I can help you! amconnell12@gmail.com 




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